Monthly Archives: September 2013



Today was an interesting day.

This morning my sister had a soccer game. She lost, unfortunately, but it was only 0-1.

We also watched the new Star Trek movie Into Darkness and I must say I LOVE IT! We got it on DirecTV and have watched it quite a few times.

I was also on my computer all day and I was doing nothing productive. This will be the second thing I will have posted today and that is unacceptable to me. I could have done more.

But my being on all day has given me a headache and is messing with my eyes, so, if my willpower allows it, I shall not use my computer again until tomorrow evening so as to recover my strength and stamina.




Today was a productive day until my sister introduced me to a new game… that is highly addicting. 😡

It’s called Papa’s Cupakeria. And I’ve been playing it since my sister showed it to me.

THANKFULLY, everything I was planning on getting done today was finished (the Mage Specializations for my other blog).

Also, I got my father a WordPress today so he could promote his book! He’s already gotten e-mails and a ton of views! It was always his dream to publish a book, so the fact I was able to help him promote it is a big deal. 😀

If you’re curious about my dad’s book, go to Am I Black? by Greg Robinson.

Anybody else have a very addicting game they like to play?

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Technology Rocks!

I now have access to my blog from my NOOK Tablet!

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw yeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! lol

What other technological advances are you using?

Why Does Love Always Feel Like A Battlefield?

Why Does Love Always Feel Like A Battlefield?

(I love how Calvin Harris – I Need Your Love ft. Ellie Goulding comes on as I type this.)


One of the very few things in my life that brings out the cowardice in me. I would rather deal with a dragon than tell the man I have grown to care for how I feel. I’ll deal with the spiders in Arachnophobia before I tell him.

The reason being, I wasn’t taught much in the area of romance. Only what I saw in Disney movies, but everybody knows that aren’t all that accurate. And Maker knows Twilight is a horrible romance act to follow. Do. Not. Imitate. Ever.

The only emotions I have ever effectively expressed are those of anger, sadness, happiness, disgust, excitement, pain, and maybe even some stress. But I was never one to express love or concern. My anger and concern are sometimes confused. So are concern and pain. If I ever showed just concern, I don’t remember it.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I feel love. It’s just the “romancing” part of the process I take issue with. In fact, it scares me to even try. Even when I really care for the guy. I give off small, subtle hints, but I don’t think I’m good at those either, especially since they are part of my personality to begin with. You don’t actually see love and affection until the romance portion is complete and the dating has commenced.

I tend to remember the smallest of details about the people I care the most about.

Example? Let me tell you a bit about my current love interest.

We met on October 22, 2011. His birthday is December 13, 1990. His favorite animal is the wolf, which I painted a picture of for his birthday, and his favorite color is purple. Last we spoke, he said he wanted a government job, but he didn’t want to be a part of the military. He wants to be an FBI Agent, but he has to get his Bachelor’s degree first. One of their (stupid) requirements. He loves Johnny Cash and Morgan Freeman. He calls security guards “rent-a-cops;” seeing as he is a cop, I guess he can talk all he wants. He also plays Skyrim, what appears to be his favorite video game, and Magic! The Gathering. He owns a red truck. He likes beer. And he is also an artist. And he sings.

See what I mean? Details.

But I do that with my friends, too. I just don’t remember as much (no offense to them). The closer I feel to the person, the more I remember. What interests me the most, though, are our similarities:

We are very close in age. He is only one much and fourteen days older than I am. We have the same favorite animal and color. I was trying to get into the military earlier this year (a government job) until I broke my finger. I’m not as interested in Johnny Cash as he is, but I find him interesting. I, too, love Morgan freeman, and I didn’t think of security guards as “rent-a-cops” until it was brought up. Now I think it’s funny. I’ve played Skyrim, but not enough to understand his fascination. I’ve played Magic and I like it a lot, just not enough to make my own deck. I don’t own a truck, but I like them. I’ve never had beer, so I can’t comment. And I, too, am an artist. I draw, paint, and do graphic design. And I sing.

Kinda scary our similarities. I think we were twins or clones of each other in a past life. Or two. Or three.

And I haven’t even touched on his personality yet. To me, personality is the most important thing. We have some similarities there, too. We both like to help others; look at what he’s doing and look at what I’m doing with my blog. He’s strong willed, confident, he cares about others, and he has his funny moments. He gets really into whatever he does, too.

The only downside I have found so far is he likes Skyrim more than Dragon Age.

I’ll just have to deal with it. Have to take the good and the bad. Can’t pick and choose…

But it’s worth it to be able to look into his eyes and hold him in my arms. His eyes are beautiful. And the last time we embraced, (it was to say goodbye, we were heading home) I didn’t want to let go. He fit perfectly. I held onto him a little longer than what would be described as a “normal” hug once. If he noticed, he didn’t let on. If he cared for me at one point, he never let it show. If he did, I COMPLETELY missed it. Like I said, I suck at romance…

But he is what I think about when I get up in the morning.

It wasn’t always that way, though. I was stupid and tried to bury my feelings for him. I convinced myself we never had a chance and that it wouldn’t work since it would have been a long distance relationship after I graduated from college. I live four hours away from him. How would that work?

Convincing myself of that worked for a while. I buried my feelings enough to fall for someone else. That is, until he stabbed me in the back along with three of my best friends. The sad thing is, that relationship would have worked even with the long distance. Now, I can never trust him again.

Then I began to feel empty.

Then the “Special Agent” got a Facebook. And I saw his face. His eyes. And everything flooded back. The dam broke. The hurricane destroyed my steel walls. The cowardice returned. And I felt a new emotion; loneliness.

I spent my entire life pretty much alone. I had friends, but I wasn’t dependent upon them for survival. I knew, and still know, how to have fun on my own. Like I said in my Get To Know Erica! page, I  love to write. So, loneliness is something new for me. I still don’t know how to handle it.

So I decided to blog about it. Maybe getting it all out somehow will make me feel a little better.

It didn’t…

Any relationship advice you can give?

My Journey Through the Land of Dreams

My Journey Through the Land of Dreams

Run by the Chantry, a religious order, the Circle of Magi resides in a tower,
And they protect Ferelden from we Mages’ awesome and terrible power.
“Magic exists to serve man, and never to rule over him,”
The words of Andraste, the bride of our Maker.

In the tower the Mages are taught control,
While the Templars are vigilant in their patrol.
This place to me is both a refuge and a prison,
With the Templars being alert for any sign of corruption.

When my family realize my magical ability,
They unfortunately could not keep me solely because of humility.
This life is all I know, and I have lived my life indulged in my contemplation,
Letting my thoughts flow.

But upon an eve, I am dragged from my bed,
And I know I shall end up dead.
I am lead to a room that shall surely be my doom,
But it is not.

I am to take my test,
And I know that I shall do my best.

This test is called the Harrowing,
And I am doing quite a bit of following.

Many have taken this test before me,
Involving demons and a test of loyalty.
I am to face a demon armed with only my will,
And if I fail, the demon shall have his fill.

Into the Fade I shall be sent,
Into the land of dreams where my will might be spent.
When people sleep, except for dwarves, the Fade is where out spirits go,
But Mages travel there awake and aware,
And it gives the demons quite a show.

There are many different demons and they take strength from our sins,
And they wish to use Mages for their every whim.
If I was to fall, which I shall not do,
It shall prevent Templars from making my making my body go askew.

For if I am possessed by a demon,
I shall become and abomination.
And the demon shall be free to walk in the realm of the mortals,
Using my body to their discretion.

I must use a substance called Lyrium to gain access to the Fade,
It appears to be the color of jade.
In a flash I arrive in a dimly lit land like those of the past,
And then the first of my enemies arrives, but it does not last.

A small ball of lightning appears to be my foe,
But after my Arcane Bolt, away it shall go.
The small energy sphere hits my target,
And I must refrain from becoming a braggart.

I run along and I would prefer to mind my own business,
But ahead of me is a small mouse who wants to give me his assistance.
The mouse first bashes the test, the Templars and their deed,
And I most certainly agreed.

Then he takes the form of a man,
And introduces himself as best as he can.
He has spent countless years in the Fade,
Remaining in hiding in the shade.

In the past he, too, took the Harrowing,
And the Templars were most uncaring.
He took too long to complete his task,
And the Templars assumed he did not last.

Because of their assumption that he had failed,
With a blade he was impaled.
I express my apologies on the Templars’ behalf,
You are wasting time, he says, shooting my apologies back.

He becomes my advisor,
And my allowing him to come along makes me one of the wiser.
He tells me attacking everything is foolish,
And that there are spirits here whose help I would surely cherish.

When conversation ends,
I stop him again.
I wish to speak with him so as to be further enlightened,
But he says it is not safe to be out in the open.

I ask what he knows of the Fade,
And he gives me the obvious aid.
But then he adds info of another kind,
Telling me that demons feed on the dark parts of a person’s mind.

I then ask if I can somehow change forms as he can,
It looks like it would be useful in this land.
The only way for the wish to come true,
Is I need to somehow forget, that you are you.

I ask him about the helpful spirits that he had mentioned,
But the Fade has no signs, he can only point me in the right direction.
Mouse follows along and watches my next fight.
The little Wisp Wraith casts Lightning Strike.

He is another little ball of lightning,
But like the other, the energy sphere he does not see coming.
After that victory comes a treat,
I come across a helpful spirit upon the Wisp Wraith’s defeat.

He stands firm and confident as a warrior should,
Glowing white and quite transparent like a spirit would.
He realizes immediately why I am there,
And says it is because of cowards that I am here.

He believes we Mages should fight amongst ourselves to prove our mettle with skill,
Rather than be sent unarmed against a demon with just our will.
I agree and state that I did not have a choice,
He is aware and says the fault lies with those who should not have a voice.

He tells me he is Valor, a warrior spirit,
And that he makes weapons by his own will.
I ask what he knows of the Harrowing,
A name he did not recognize upon hearing.

He only knew that a demon had been called and told to wait,
And the demon cannot leave until of one us is dead – I am the bait.
He says he will assist, but there is a catch.
I must agree to a duel or he will close the hatch.

To receive a weapon I must win,
If I lose, he will remove my “skin.”
On him I use a spell that I hope will work,
It is called Weakness, which shall decrease his footwork.

With his sword and shield in hand,
Valor could have been the best in the land.
But after energy spheres and a Fire Blast,
He feels my strength is sufficient to the task.

The staff I am given will not last outside the Fade,
But I am grateful all the same.
I give him my thanks and he simply says,
May you find glory in all your achievements, mortal.

Again I move on to finish my burden,
Until three Spirit Wolves appear to make me bedridden.
These foes were more difficult, it is true,
But Arcane Bolt can get rid of a conflict or two.

Then Mouse warns me of a Spirit up ahead,
It is not the one I seek, but it might still want me dead.
It is a demon of Sloth having a slumber,
Hoping the demon I am to fight will leave scraps for his supper.

He is in the form of a bear,
The color of blood with spiky hair.
When asked about my opponent, Sloth simply says,
I know that you will fail your test.

He also says he wishes to see the mortal world with my eyes,
But he is disinclined to begin such a struggle.
My response to this is a sarcastic, Lucky me,
To which he says, Indeed. Now, what do you want of me?

I tell him I would like his assistance,
And then Mouse suggest I could take on Sloth’s appearance.
Sloth finds me questionable, but Mouse commendable.
He had forgotten his human form long ago.

Mouse is not sure that idea is best,
A mouse is able to hide from all the rest.
I tell him he needs to face his fear,
And eventually he decides to take the wheel.

Unfortunately, Sloth is tricky,
He has decided to be picky.
I have to answer three riddles correctly,
Or I shall be his dinner directly.

I agree to his terms without a pause,
And I wish someone could have been there to applaud.
The riddles were interesting ones,
If I had not been there on borrowed time, it would have been fun!

I have seas without rivers, coasts with no sand,
towns without people, mountains without land.
What am I?
I passed and Sloth moved on.

I’m rarely touched, but often held.
If you have wits, you’ll use me well.
What am I?
I passed, to Sloth’s dismay.

Often will I spin a tale; never will I charge a fee.
I’ll amuse you an entire eve, but, alas, you won’t remember me.
What am I?
Upon the completion of my test, Sloth tutored Mouse, assisting in my quest.

New strength comes with his new form,
And mouse now assist me against a Spirit Wolf swarm.
Mouse slams into our foes,
Slaughters all those who dare oppose.

He had never felt anything like this before,
He is filled with a new strength that he now adores.
When asked how he survived so long as a mouse,
He says that the shadows he been his house.

After everything he had done,
It felt wrong knowing that later he would be left alone.
He is unsure of how I can help him since he has not body on the other side,
He chooses to stop thinking about it so we can focus on saving my hide.

The demon emerges from the ground,
A being of Wrath, covered in fire.
Soon I shall see the land with your eyes, creature.
You shall be mine, body and soul.

I warn him that the Templars will cut him down if he were to succeed,
And he laughs and doubts that they will be up to the deed.
He then calls upon Mouse and, as the conversation goes,
I become aware that Mouse might soon become one of my foes.

But Mouse remains true to my cause,
And attacks Wrath with his great bear claws.
While I cast Weakness on my possible possessor,
Four Wisp Wraiths take advantage of my distraction.

Mouse and I ignore the Halflings,
For we have to deal with a more important thing.
Mouse slams Wrath with a critical hit,
And I finish with a Fire Blast, doing my bit.

Upon our victory, the frightened Wraiths disappeared,
Mouse rejoiced and practically cheered.
Even though I should have been happy, I was too busy thinking to be;
I felt that the fight had been way too easy.

Mouse says it is because I am a true Mage,
Something he didn’t think he would see in any day and age.
He says he regrets the sabotaging he did in the past,
For I have shown him that there is hope at last.

His visage throughout the conversation has made me suspicious,
So I asked him what out of me he wishes.
He predicts that I will eventually be a great sorcerer indeed,
And that there was much more in store awaiting me.

But to help him leave the Fade he would need a host,
And it is I he wants the most.
I say to him, I’m starting to think the other demons wasn’t my test.
He starts to protest…

Then he laughs.
You are a smart one, he says at last.
I am hoping I won’t have to fight someone I was beginning to call friend,
And hoping that all this would quickly end.

Mouse’s form shifts again,
His skin changes to be the color of royals.
The deep purple figure stands over me as I back away.
I shall fight if I must to live through the day.

Keep your wits about you, mage. True tests never end.

What did you think of the poem?

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